Awakening Together In Love

For Singles

When considering potential partners, how can I find someone who is trustworthy?

How do you work through the challenges that come up when you’re in the early stages of a relationship?

What can you do now, as a single person, to be better prepared to make a future relationship successful?

When you’re single and you want a relationship, your first thought is to find someone with similar interests that you find attractive. Today’s media implies that all it takes to make a relationship work is finding that certain someone.

Oh, if only life was that easy!

But you know it’s not that easy. You know it’s going to take more to make a relationship work.

Do you have a sense of what a good relationship looks like?

Not many people do. Perhaps, you’re realizing that you don’t even have a good role model for what a healthy relationship looks like. Perhaps, you’re also wondering if there is a secret to creating a successful relationship.

“Awakening Together is about seeing the Divine in your partner’s eyes, not just during the romantic stage, but years, even decades later. “
~ Sharon and Trevor Hart

Let’s start with the secret. There are actually two secrets.

Here is the first secret about Awakening Together.

Although there are many joyful times in a successful relationship the purpose of a healthy relationship isn’t about making each other happy.
 
“It isn’t?” you might ask.
 
Nope. Actually, the first mistake potential partners make is to assume that the other person is there to make them happy. And the second mistake they make is to assume it’s their job to make the other person happy.
 
What’s the real the purpose of relationship?
 
Let’s answer that by looking at the results.
 
When a partnership is successful, the following happens:

  • You see how magnificent your partner really is.
  • And your partner sees how magnificent you are.
  • You each get to see your own essence and get a clearer idea of who you really are
  • Enormous joy flows between you and within you, because of all the beauty that the two of you see in yourselves and in each other
  • Life is more meaningful and more beautiful

But you don’t get to this point by trying to make the other person happy or by trying to get the other person to make you happy.
 
The purpose of relationship is to reveal to each of you how magnificent you each really are.
 
Relationships show you what’s blocking you from living from your essence. All the conflicts that happen in a relationship have a purpose; they are there to show you what is holding you back from being the best YOU that you can be.
 
You might be thinking, “I thought that conflict meant the relationship was not good.”

It all depends on how conflict is handled. If conflict becomes just blaming each other and avoiding each other and nothing constructive comes from the conflict, then it can mean that you are with the wrong partner.

However, if the conflict is handled in a way, where differences are resolved, insights are gained, trust grows and mutual solutions are found, then relationships can flourish. Then, the conflicts that seem like stumbling blocks actually become fertile ground for intimacy to grow.

How do you learn to handle conflict in a constructive way?

Most of the time, when conflicts escalate in a relationship, it’s because there are unresolved family of origin, and multi-generational wounds that need healing. Only 20-30% of the conflict is actually about the spouses’ current challenges. The other 70-80% of the conflict revolves around subconscious psycho-spiritual pain that you both unconsciously carried into the relationship. When you start to learn how to work as a team to resolve these psycho-spiritual issues and multi-generational wounds, then you have the makings of a strong foundation for your relationship.

What can I do while I am single to get myself ready for this kind of relationship?

There is quite a bit you can do, while being single to reach your goal of joy and intimacy. It begins with knowing more and more about yourself.

  • Learn to enjoy your own company. Relationships work better, when two strong individuals come together
  • Connect to heart wisdom, so you can be clear about what is truly important to you
  • Work on clearing your own psycho-spiritual concerns. The more you know about your inner workings, the easier it will be to find solutions to conflicts with your new partner
  • Addressing family of origin and multi-generational wounds. Knowing how your past has influenced your relationships will make it easier to take responsibility for resolving your side of the conflict

The second secret is about Awakening Together

How do you do that?

 

“Awakening Together is about sharing the ecstatic silence that is at the core of life with one another on a daily basis. Awakening Together is about seeing the Divine in your partner’s eyes, not just during the romantic stage, but years, even decades later.

 

When we fall in love, we can easily see the spark of the Divine in our partner’s eyes, but what do we do, when the romantic stage ends and the power struggle stage begins? If both partners have the courage to look at their own dark shadow, and also develop compassion for each other’s shadow, then the relationship can climb out of the power struggle stage.

 

When you continue down this path of spiritualizing relationship, you eventually come to understand the true meaning of unconditional love.”

 

Sharon and Trevor Hart

Is this Awakening Together Mentoring group for me?

People who are considering taking our singles mentoring group:

  • Have never had a long-term committed relationship
  • Have been married and divorced
  • Have been through at least one relationship since their divorce
  • Are currently in a partnership, but their partner isn’t interested in doing the couple’s mentoring group with them.

The people in this group want an intimate relationship, but they are also often quite apprehensive. However, they are also highly motivated to learn what it really takes to make a relationship work. Does this sound like you?

 

In the Awakening Together in Love Spiritual Mentoring group you can ask questions, such as these: 

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I have had many relationships fail, and I want an intimate relationship, but I am beginning to think maybe I am doing something wrong. Maybe I don’t know how to create a really good relationship. Is there hope for me?
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I find these sizzling hot romances, and I am crazy in love, and the other person seems crazy about me too. But then we start to argue and the relationship just crashes. How do you get a relationship to last and last?
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I am one of these people, who works really hard on relationships, and I do everything I can to make my partner happy. I thought that would be enough, but it’s not. How do I get my partner to work hard on the relationship too?
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I keep meeting partners who say they want a spiritual relationship, but after a while the relationship just deteriorates into conflict. What does it take for two people to come together and actually create and maintain a spiritual relationship? I think I am missing something about what’s involved in finding a partner, who could walk this path beside me?
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My current partner and I both want a relationship, where the purpose is to Awaken Together. However, we have begun to realize that we view spirituality from different angles? How can we overcome the problems that arise from having different spiritual practices?
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I love my current partner, but he/she is not on the spiritual path? How can I use the relationship I am in for spiritual growth, if my partner has no interest?

Who This Group is NOT for?

  • If you aren’t interested in personal growth
  • If you are clear that emotions are not something you want to explore
  • If exploring a higher power is something you know you’re not interested in
  • If you like to blame others for your problems
  • If you think you’re beyond hope and you’re not willing to change
  • If you like to argue and debate

Meet Sharon Hart

Why is Sharon a fabulous spiritual mentoring guide?

Sharon Hart, M.A. is the creator of Quantum Dialogue Works™, a unique approach to healing psycho-spiritual and multi-generational wounds. Sharon is a spiritual mentor, life coach, and ordained minister. She has worked as a special education teacher as well.

The primary focus of Sharon’s work is to encourage people to perceive the world from a place of inner peace, freedom, and joy – no matter what is happening in their lives.

Sharon also specializes in guiding clients to create an intimate relationship that nourishes the soul. Her Quantum Dialogue Works™ is also effective in helping singles with relationship issues to make rapid progress towards finding a great partner.

For over twenty-five years, Sharon has worked with hundreds of people, who have been pleasantly surprised to discover that emotional discomfort doesn’t have to mean choosing between denying emotions or getting caught up in them. Sharon’s work offers a surprising alternative.

She has a phenomenal gift for showing clients how to bring awareness to the emotional experiences of life in such a way that it is possible to penetrate the feeling; thus, revealing a profound silence and peace hidden deep within the feeling.

For advanced students, there lies the possibility of moving beyond mere glimpses of peace and joy. Through Sharon’s Quantum Dialogue Works™ it is possible to directly access the layer of the holographic mind that can literally and instantaneously liberate one from the knots of psychological suffering. This occurs by switching identification from “personhood” to the holographic wholeness that underlies who and what we all are.

What is a HartWisdom Mentoring Group?

What is a HartWisdom Mentoring Group?

HartWisdom Mentoring Groups provide an opportunity to gather together in times of uncertainty and discover how heart wisdom can open a portal to inner peace, unity consciousness, and sublime fulfillment.

Trevor and Sharon Hart designed these HartWisdom Mentoring Groups to show you how to use these times of global unrest and personal distress, as a stepping stone on your transformational journey.

Through HartWisdom, this transformational journey has the power to take us from the world in flux that we live in now to the golden age of compassion, cooperation and untold possibilities for ourselves and for humanity.

Would you like to immerse yourself in a potent, on-going HartWisdom mentoring experience, where you can ask your deepest spiritual questions?

Our HartWisdom Mentoring Groups offer you a blend of personal attention and the power of group synergy.

These HartWisdom Mentoring Groups are structured around your present moment experience; this allows Sharon to fine-tune the wisdom teachings to specific concerns you have. These groups are small and intimate, so that there is plenty of time for one-on-one support or “mini-sessions” with Sharon.

When you ask a question in the group, a sacred space is created, in which Sharon takes you on an inward spiritual journey. This offers you many of the benefits of working with Sharon in a private session at a lower cost.

Will I really have an opportunity to work directly with Sharon in these group sessions?

Yes! Unlike many spiritual programs, which enroll hundreds of participants, we are making a conscious decision to keep our groups small. We keep enrollment to a level, where there is plenty of time for people to ask questions and take turns in mini-sessions. We will work directly with at least three to five people, who want to ask a question during each session. If you want to just come and listen, that is also an option.

Why are these mentoring groups focused on a theme?

Most spiritual mentoring groups usually don’t have themes, but we chose to have themes because by focusing the mentoring groups on a particular theme, it’s easier for members of the group to benefit from the questions presented by other participants.

What are the benefits of doing this work in a group?

One of the great benefits of working with a HartWisdom mentoring group is the synergistic awareness that forms within the group. This group consciousness works on a subtle level to gently empower your work in the “mini-sessions”. In addition, as group members begin to know one another through the work, a strong sense of community develops.

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We are not affiliated or sponsored by any religious organization.
Our groups are open to anyone from any religion or spiritual orientation (including atheists), who is interested in exploring Heart Wisdom.

Ongoing Groups Starting Now

How often do these mentoring groups meet?

Each month you receive two online, audio only group sessions. Each session lasts an hour and half to two hours.
When you join a group, initialy we ask for a three-month commitment, because we know that it takes most people 6 sessions to have a full sense of how this work can be of benefit to them.

What do you mean by on-going? Can I stay in the group after the initial 6 sessions are over?

Yes! Our groups are ongoing, allowing the group members to continue the mentoring experience as long as they want. After the initial six group sessions, you can rejoin the group with as many additional two-month commitments as you would like.

What is the time commitment?

For individuals, there is no set curriculum in this mentoring format, thus beyond actually attending each meeting, there is no additional time commitment – no homework or teaching videos to review.

Some couples groups do have assignments. For details, please check the particular couples group.

Will there be recordings of each mentoring group session?

For individuals, we will not be providing recordings of the sessions for participants for multiple reasons. One reason involves respecting the privacy concerns of group members, and another reason is that we feel that it is very important for you to attend each session in person. We, however, reserve the right to record any group session for our own use

Some couples groups do provide some recordings. For details, please check the particular couples group.

Are there some Mentoring Groups that Sharon will be facilitating alone?

Sharon and Trevor share an interest and an expertise on many of the HartWisdom Mentoring Groups topics. However, there are some HartWisdom Mentoring Groups in which Sharon excels. Therefore, she will be facilitating the following groups by herself:

What Mentoring Groups will Trevor and Sharon facilitate together?

Trevor is in the process of shifting his focus from his private work to these HartWisdom Mentoring Groups, but this will happen as a transition that slowly occurs over time. Please understand that Trevor has a sacred contract with his existing clients that must be fulfilled before he transitions to these groups.
As we begin launching these HartWisdom Programs, Trevor’s involvement will be quite limited, and Sharon will often be the primary facilitator and mentor during the initial phase. But as the HartWisdom Programs become more established, and as Trevor begins to reduce the size of his private practice, Trevor’s role and involvement in the HartWisdom groups will increase substantially.

Starting in Fall 2020, Trevor will begin facilitating the following groups with Sharon at least once a month.

Starting early 2021, we expect that Trevor will begin facilitating the following groups with Sharon at least once a month.

I have been told by other people that you have a very long waitlist. Is it possible to get a private session with Trevor and Sharon?

When you participate in any of our groups, you go to the top of the waitlist for private sessions. This is not a guarantee that you will get private sessions with Trevor or Sharon, but it does improve your chances of becoming a private client.

I am very interested in experiencing the LightBody Engineering protocols. Will Trevor be providing any LBE protocols during the groups?

We have plans for Trevor to offer LightBody Engineering Protocols in these groups at a later date. Currently, this is only available to those, who have been an active part of our community. Hopefully, we will be able to offer you a series of protocols in these groups starting in January 2021. If you are interested in private sessions, join our email list and also sign up for Trevor’s waitlist.

Sessions for the Awakening Together in Love Group are ongoing and held

Fridays 2:30-4:00 pm EST
twice a month
(except holidays)

When you are accepted to the program, you will be given the dates for the next 12 group sessions.

Register now for these groups.

Just enter your details in the form below.

(Investment details and FAQs beneath the form.)

If you and your partner would like to join you for a Couple’s HartWisdom Mentoring group, you can choose from the three options below:

Awakening Together In Times of Uncertainty

In Sickness and In Health: When You or Your Spouse Has a Health Issue

Awakening As Parents: When Your Child is Sick or Disabled.

 

Do you, your partner or anyone in your home have any of the following challenges:

If you answered yes to any of these concerns, and you believe that your challenge in these areas is minor, then:

  • We suggest you discuss the issue with the Harts during the initial free call. There are some situations when we give individuals permission to attend if certain conditions are followed.
  • Please explain briefly here:

If you answered yes and you know your problem is serious, please understand that we have great compassion for what you are going through and we wish we could support every individual and/or couple who wants help, but there are limits to what we can do in a spiritual mentoring program. If you or your current partner or a child/ teenager/adult (related or not related) living in your home are struggling with these kinds of issues our mentoring groups and even our private sessions can not offer you the quality of support that you need. We suggest you reach out to a psychologist or psychiatrist or a lawyer.

We will dismiss individuals and couples from the program who are not upfront about these issues. Remember we do not offer refunds.

 

The next two questions apply only to the autism group:

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Program Fees and FAQs

How do I join a group?

Enrollment occurs on an on-going basis, so you can join any of our HartWIsdom groups in progress at any time. The first step in joining the group is EASY: just register by filling out the form above and indicate which group you want to join.

No payment is required at time of registration.

Be sure to provide your correct phone number on the registration form, because the next step in the enrollment process is a short free pre-enrollment call, during which time you can ask any questions you might have about our HartWisdom mentoring programs. We will also go over the details of our enrollment process and payment methods with you at that time.

If there is room in the group you are requesting, you will be invited to join the group.

How much does it cost to enroll?

You register for the groups in packages.

  • The initial package is for 6 sessions (3-month).
  • After that you can purchase as many 4-session (2-month) packages as you want.

The cost for joining a HartWisdom mentoring group is $375 per person for your initial package of 6 sessions.
If you join the group after October 15, 2020 the price for the initial 6 sessions goes up to $450.
We are also expecting another price increase after the new year.

Payment in full is required before attending any group.

Prices and dates are subject to change at any time. We do not offer refunds.

How much does it cost to continue per person after the first package?

You can continue purchasing consecutive blocks of four sessions (2-month) packages for as long as you like.

The current price for a four session (2-month) package is $250. On November 20, the price for a four session (2-month) package goes up to $325. We are also expecting another price increase after the new year.

As long as you continue buying consecutive 2 month packages, your price remains the same as your initial package of 4 sessions. However, to keep this low price, you need to pay by check and you must register within 5 days of completion of your last package of sessions.

Otherwise, the price for the 2 month package reverts to the newest current price.

Payment in full is required before attending any group.

Prices and dates are subject to change at any time. We do not offer refunds.

Are there any special discounts? What are the payment method options?

  • EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT: The earlier you decide to enroll the lower the price. (See ‘How much does it cost to enroll’ above for details)
  • PAY BY CHECK OPTION: If you choose to pay via check for your initial 6 sessions, the cost is reduced by $50.
  • PAYPAL INVOICE- We offer this option for the initial package of 6 sessions ONLY. Let us know if this is how you would like to pay.
  • LOW PRICE EXTENSION: We offer our lowest prices for those who choose to pay using the following methods: (We prefer these options because we want to minimize people going into debt via credit card to pay for our programs.)

    If you use one of these methods, you can reduce your cost by $50 for each payment for a HartWisdom group. Apply for this low-price extension by sending an email to [email protected] and we will send you payment details.

  • SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM: We highly advise you speak to us about our partial scholarship program, rather than going into debt to take our course. Apply for our unique Partial Scholarship program by sending an email requesting with the word “mutual gifting” in the subject line to [email protected]. This option is also available for private session work.